10 Traits of Very Successful Men

We live in a world that's changing everyday, yet successful men share

traits that are as timeless as they are evident. From Andrew Carnegie

to Warren Buffet, all the way to Steve Jobs and Tiger Woods, there are

certain attitudes and inclinations that set certain individuals above

the rest. History is not kind to those men who fail, conversely, those

who set themselves apart and don't compromise are held in a special

regard; titans of industry, masters of finance, artists of no equal.

Recognizing characteristics of men like these and emulating their

ethos is a good start to living the life of a successful man.

1. Be a Force of Nature

Whether in business, leisure or love, a successful man is one of

action. Making difficult decisions and acting on them is not only part

maturity, but is a fundamental quality shared by generations of

accomplished men. Particularly in business, winning men are those of

action. This doesn't always mean finding the route up the corporate

ladder. Relatively speaking, those who succeed are those who cannot

bear inactivity. Taking well-conceived plans and acting on them is

often risky, but the truly outstanding man knows that not acting on a

solid conviction is foolish. When Bill Gates dropped out of Harvard to

pursue his dream of personal computing he certainly had his critics,

no one would second-guess his choice now.

2. Confidence is Key

For natural leaders, self-confidence is as intrinsic as their eye

color. If you are not a natural-born leader, you must learn to be

confident; it takes serious commitment and hard work. This doesn't

involve charging into battle, or out-maneuvering your partners at the

negotiating table; it's a steady and demonstrable ability to lead.

Being comfortable calling big shots, and confidently believing that

you are right comes easy to few; learning to find your rhythm is

crucial to being a winner. It isn't a matter of knowing when and when

not to take credit, or even when to step up when others shy away, true

confidence makes situational variables irrelevant. Confident leaders

are responsible at all times, and that's the way they like it - on

vacation, in the workshop, in the boardroom and in the bedroom.

3. Surround Yourself with the Best People

Surrounding yourself with the best people is a well-documented part of

success. This isn't limited to business or money matters. Artists,

scientists and athletes all surround themselves with the brightest,

placing themselves in an environment where they can thrive. Successful

politicians do this as well, President Obama has selected a cabinet

that is uncharacteristically bipartisan; he kept President Bush's

Defense Secretary Robert Gates, and nominated other GOP members to his

cabinet, relying on credentials rather than party. Making genuine

friends, with respected innovators and contemporaries in your field is

crucial to living as a successful man.

4. Know Your Loves and Indulge.

In the same vein as being a man of action, staying in tune with your

passions and loves are characteristics of a thriving man. Steve Jobs

did not lose his focus when he was forcefully ousted from the company

he co-founded (Apple) in the 1980s. Learn from one of history's

greatest businessmen. Following his departure he started Pixar, an

animation giant, and broke ground with NeXT, the software that would

become MacOS X. When Apple reintegrated Jobs as acting CEO, Apple once

again took a position of leadership with innovative products like the

iPod, iTunes, iMac and the iPhone. The momentum of a man driven by

what he loves can never be compromised.

5. Take a Piece of Every Pie

Highly successful men are those who are well rounded. Unless you plan

to devote your entire life to solving obscure proofs, or lock yourself

in a room writing the world's greatest song, being able to enjoy,

appreciate and share in all facets of life is important for a

successful man. There are rare geniuses out there, who cannot be

bothered by society, but most men judge their success by that

society's bar; money, power, political influence, and great art. Thus,

being well read, well informed and truly appreciative of fine art

comes naturally to great men. So if you're not a world-renowned

surgeon, or wall-street maverick, but wish to achieve success as they

have, begin to understand what is great about Sartre, Art Institutes

and literary journals.



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