-social networks has abruptly ended many loving
relationships. This is not only restricted to
singles but also married people. There have
been reports of how Facebook whatsapp and co has wrecked
relationships due to the ease at which users
meet new friends and reconnect with their
exes. Hence, partners have to be conscious
and careful with the way they use social
media. Here are some rules you can
religiously follow to prevent getting into
trouble with chatting.
Be careful when changing your relationship
status
The relationship status on Facebook includes
single, married, In a relationship, and
complicated. So, you have to be careful in
choosing your relationship status. If you are
dating, your partner expects you to change
your relationship status. In this case, if you
don't, he may suspect that you have ulterior
motives for not changing the status. Also, do
not be in a hurry to change your relationship
status if you have a fight. It is better to
select a status that corresponds to your
relationship status.
Don't take your arguments public
When couples or lovers 'fight', some take it
to Facebook. They exchange nasty public
messages which may be triggered by one of
the partners who puts up posts supposedly
referring to the other. You may feel hurt due
to whatever he/she did, it doesn't mean you
should take it online. Facebook will only
exacerbate the arguments leading to an
undesirable break up.
Don't befriend your ex
The easiest way to connect with your ex is
on Facebook. If you do, you may put yourself
in a very uncomfortable situation with your
present lover. Even if you still have feelings
for him, it is better not to accept his friend's
request and stay away. Accepting his
request can mean trouble as he will have
complete access to your profile as well as
your phone number. This is when he begins
to beep every day which may lead your guy
to begin to suspect you.
Tag only people you know in your pictures
There is no gainsaying that women like
pictures. They post different pictures on
Facebook including the one they aren't
meant to post. Some have posted selfies
with their ex. If by any chance your partner
sees the photo while browsing through your
profile, it may probably lead to a dispute.
You will not be helped if he is a jealous type.
Don't be online 24/7
You may appear to be online but that does
not necessarily mean that you will reply chat
messages. Your partner will be wondering
what you are doing online when you meant
to be sleeping or engaged in something else.
It is better to go offline completely when you
are idle.
and on on whatapp also,know the kind of pictures you uploads and make
sure your status is well read before update to avoid had I known.
-never ignore his or her chat when online because you can be seen
online except you to be misunderstood as chatting with another lover
be careful dear, is not worth it.
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